- are different. Shock horror.Read More
I have been experiencing ORGASM GAP RAGE. Well, yes, you may be thinking, of course, I’m a sex educator so I should be enraged, but that’s not the only reason why.Read More
I joke that it’d be when the voices in my head answer back…Read More
Sexual energy is the most creative force on this planet, today's journal question: Where am I losing power?Read More
Morning rituals that lead to a great sex life...Read More
'Stop taking life so damn seriously' - note to self this week...Read More
Fireworks (in and out of the bedroom) are my favourite, so to all our US tribe members happy Independence Day - I was over in San Francisco for this holiday a few years back, the Bay area certainly know how to party and yes, you cheeky monkeys, there were certainly fireworks…Read More
Dirty secret time, my career before I set up Inti-Mate was in health and safety. Water safety; a Legionella bacteria specialist to be exact. Turned on? No? I wasn’t either….Read More
Horizontalize. Verb. To orient horizontally. Delicious word right?Read More
‘Photo or it didn’t happen’ my girls often text. Whether that was prepping for a date night, adventure or sexcapade.Read More
I used to think that if I needed lube there was something wrong with me, that I wasn’t getting turned on enough or my lady garden just didn’t work like everyone else’s.
Ready to crash out when you get home? Too tired for sexy time?
I’ve spoken before about how the over-demanding 21st-century lifestyle leaves women feeling anxious, stressed and disconnected from our bodies’Read More
How many of us still believe that great sex MUST be spontaneous; that if it’s planned, it's somehow not as good?Read More
Ah the journal, my powerful little tool that makes sense of my thoughts and helps me experience more pleasure every damn day.Read More
I’m not talking about what’s between your legs this time.
I’m talking about my name. I’ve had a few over the years, and different hair to match.
Caroline D’Arcy is on my birth certificate.Read More
Vulva, vagina, yoni, pussy, falula…? After finishing a beautiful session with one of my amazing clients, we chatted about social/cultural reasons that she didn’t really have a name for that area.Read More