- are different. Shock horror.

Embodiment, Pleasure, Sex Education, EDITOR'S PICKSCaroline D'ArcyAugust 16, 2018

Mind the Gap

I have been experiencing ORGASM GAP RAGE. Well, yes, you may be thinking, of course, I’m a sex educator so I should be enraged, but that’s not the only reason why.

Embodiment, Sex Education, Pleasure, EDITOR'S PICKSCaroline D'ArcyAugust 9, 2018

What are you scared of?

I joke that it’d be when the voices in my head answer back…

Caroline D'ArcyAugust 1, 2018

Power Up

Sexual energy is the most creative force on this planet, today's journal question: Where am I losing power?

Embodiment, Most Popular, Pleasure, Sex EducationCaroline D'ArcyJuly 25, 2018sex education, female empowerment, power, empowerment, authentic self, authentic voice, libido, recharge, energy

Good morning, you. x

Morning rituals that lead to a great sex life...

Most Popular, Respect, Embodiment, Pleasure, Sex EducationCaroline D'ArcyJuly 18, 2018Morning, ritual, coffee, mise, good morning, morning ritual, play

Tickled Pink

'Stop taking life so damn seriously' - note to self this week...

PleasureCaroline D'ArcyJuly 11, 2018colour, science of colour, pink, blue, gender norms, gender stereotyping, gender fluidity, authentic self, authenticity, web design, psychology, authentic, authentic voice

Super Independent, Secretly Lonely?

Fireworks (in and out of the bedroom) are my favourite, so to all our US tribe members happy Independence Day - I was over in San Francisco for this holiday a few years back, the Bay area certainly know how to party and yes, you cheeky monkeys, there were certainly fireworks…

Respect, Most PopularCaroline D'ArcyJuly 4, 2018empathy, female empowerment, lonely, independent, life, #sharingiscaring, shame, taboo, fireworks

Sexy Safe Sex

Dirty secret time, my career before I set up Inti-Mate was in health and safety. Water safety; a Legionella bacteria specialist to be exact. Turned on? No? I wasn’t either….

Respect, Sex Education, Most PopularCaroline D'ArcyJune 27, 2018sex, sex education, condom, safe sex, respect, pleasure, practice, contraception, protection, pill

Let’s Get Horizontal

Horizontalize. Verb. To orient horizontally. Delicious word right?

Pleasure, Sex Education, EmbodimentCaroline D'ArcyJune 20, 2018science behind sex, sex, horizontalize, anxiety, depression, chocolate cake, body scan, neural pathways, mindfulness

Sharing is Caring

‘Photo or it didn’t happen’ my girls often text. Whether that was prepping for a date night, adventure or sexcapade.

Respect, Sex EducationCaroline D'ArcyJune 13, 2018sex education, sex, female empowerment, female sexuality, shame, empathy, thoughts, words, share, #sharingiscaring

Lovely Lubricant

I used to think that if I needed lube there was something wrong with me, that I wasn’t getting turned on enough or my lady garden just didn’t work like everyone else’s.

Sex Education, Respect, Pleasure, EDITOR'S PICKSCaroline D'ArcyMay 30, 2018lube, Lubricant, sex education, sex tips, sex and relationship advice, pleasure, female pleasure

Not Tonight Darling, I'm Too Tired...

Ready to crash out when you get home? Too tired for sexy time?

I’ve spoken before about how the over-demanding 21st-century lifestyle leaves women feeling anxious, stressed and disconnected from our bodies’

Embodiment, Sex Education, Pleasure, Respect, EDITOR'S PICKSCaroline D'ArcyMay 23, 2018tired, sex education, science behind sex

The Spontaneous Sex Illusion

How many of us still believe that great sex MUST be spontaneous; that if it’s planned, it's somehow not as good?

Dear Diary...

Ah the journal, my powerful little tool that makes sense of my thoughts and helps me experience more pleasure every damn day.

What's in a name...?

I’m not talking about what’s between your legs this time.

I’m talking about my name. I’ve had a few over the years, and different hair to match.

Caroline D’Arcy is on my birth certificate.

Respect, EDITOR'S PICKSCaroline D'ArcyMay 2, 2018name, respect, stories, wise, self-reflection, diary, share, life

What do you call yours?

Vulva, vagina, yoni, pussy, falula…? After finishing a beautiful session with one of my amazing clients, we chatted about social/cultural reasons that she didn’t really have a name for that area.

Sex Education, RespectCaroline D'ArcyApril 25, 2018vagina, clitoris, female pleasure, female empowerment, female sexuality, sex education, vulva