So… How Did You Learn to Give Head?
Bedroom tips are giggled about after a few cocktails, or maybe you found some blogs, YouTube clips, studied books like “Nina Hartley's Guide to Total Sex” or grilled your Gay BFF for insider tricks? (No…? Just me then. Lol.)
In truth, most of us just learned on the job.
(I make no apologies for the amount of puns on this page)
But it wasn’t always like that…
For thousands of years, sacred bedroom arts were taught in temples by women who were revered, honoured, and paid really fucking well.
These arts were rites of passage — not just because sex is vital for the survival of the human species, but because we knew that skilled bedroom arts are essential for health, longevity, spiritual advancement, and deep human connection.
But thanks to some religious fuckery — driven by weak, threatened egos terrified of deeply powerful women — these incredible art forms and vitality practices were buried.
The impact of this runs far deeper than disappointing hook-ups or losing your libido in long-term relationships.
We’ve become separate from our creative, sexual nature — our own life force.
I’m a hard no to this.
I’m here for a world where every single person is fully initiated into the bedroom arts — where they prioritise shame-free, delicious, fulfilling, and deeply connected orgasmic experiences every single day.
Can you just imagine how different the world would be?
There’d be far less dick-swinging, power-over contests, celebrated martyrdom, and weaponised victimhood — all symptoms of our disconnection from personal power, sexual energy, our creative life force.
Okay rant over… here’s the fun bit:
We’re bringing the bedroom arts back with a BANG
Introducing ….
REBEL SALON: BLOW
This isn’t just about tips and tricks “to get him hooked on you…” (Although with great power comes great responsibility — so I’m trusting you to use these skills wisely.)
Because the ultimate secret to giving phenomenal head?
YOU have a great experience that turns YOU on.
So much so — you just love it, and he can tell.
HOW TO LOVE GIVING HEAD
First, we’ll unpack why it might currently suck for you (pun definitely intended):
Do you feel unconfident or unsure?
Does it feel too transactional, leaving you feeling flat or used?
Is there a niggling old story that being exceptional somehow makes you slutty or unlovable?
You’ve been told 'bedroom arts' are for adult entertainers or sex workers?
You fear that loving giving head attracts the 'wrong kind of attention?
These stories matter more than you realise.
They push you into “I don’t want to”, make you check out, go through the motions, and — most importantly — lose connection.
I’m here to make sure your BJ experiences are delicious, playful, and deeply connective.
