F* the rules — YOU are your only authority

One of the biggest lies we tell ourselves is:
“It’s not my fault — I just did what I was told…”
Or worse: “I followed the rules and it didn’t work, so there must be something wrong with ME.”

You follow the rules.
You’re disappointed by the outcome.

But you never stop to ask: who wrote the f-cking rule in the first place?
Why? Who benefits? Who carries the consequence?

Here’s the kicker: YOU are always responsible for the outcome — even when you’re following someone else’s rules. Even when it’s your inner child or teen on the wheel… YOU are always the one consenting.

So — whose rules are you living by?

Yesterday I was chatting with my magical friend, putting the universe to rights, going deep on consent and relationship boundaries — things like finances, pre-nups, and the assumptions we don’t even know we’re carrying.

So much of it is inherited — from parents, society, religion. Have you ever questioned where those rules came from?

Because the truth is: if you’re not setting your own terms, you’re living by someone else’s. Like in British contract law: no objection = agreement.

You can start by asking Why…
🌀 Why do you eat that for breakfast?
🌀 Why are you wearing these clothes today?
🌀 Why did you choose this career?

And what about in the bedroom?
🌀 Why do you believe you only come in that position?
🌀 Why do you think you take too long to get there?
🌀 Why do you believe only “good girls” deserve love?
🌀 Why do you associate sex and pleasure with feeling dirty?

Explore everything:
⚡ What have I automatically consented to?
⚡ Whose expectations am I living out?
⚡ What rules need breaking?

Remember —
YOU get to choose.
YOU are the one who consents.

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R E B E L W O M AN

1:1 mentoring designed to turn your whole life oBreaking the rules that are not aligned with who you really are.
Consenting to your only authority: your soul.

Ready to F the rules?

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