What You Need to Have Mind-blowing, Multiple Orgasms
Feel safe.
That might sound unsexy as hell, but as soon as your body feels under threat, perceived or real, psychological or physical, your stress hormones block your sex hormones.
This is the no. 1 cause of low libido’s, missing, or ‘meh’ orgasms.
How to feel safe in your body:
Complete your stress cycle; allow your fight-flight-freeze response, to move through and complete.
Speak to your body like you love her; feelings of disgust and shame over how you look between your legs, or naked, feel like an attack to your body and you will move into stress response.
Love the container of your relationship; whether it’s a one-night stand and being TURNED ON by the freedom that brings, feeling connected to your husband of 20 years, or letting go of the shame of a ménage à un. The container for the interaction, get’s to feel good, or your orgasms won’t flow.
Knowing and being comfortable with yours and your partner's STI status; when were you last checked, who have you had unprotected and/or protected sex with since then?
Knowing and being comfortable with contraception methods; whether you monitor your ovulation, pull out, condoms…. The thought of unwanted pregnancy is a big block to your orgasmic flow.
Know how to raise your own sexual energy. Touch your body and orgasm with and without toys; outsourcing your orgasms to your partner is disempowering and just plain rude! Expecting someone else to understand you better than you do, is derived from some 1940s BS belief that sex is for making babies and keeping your man happy.
It’s 2020 baby, time to OWN your pleasure!
Do you struggle with orgasms, or does your libido feel like a distant memory? Are you ready to take ownership of your fucking pleasure, and your life, just don’t know where to start?
Schedule a call and let’s chat.