YOUR BODY IS A KINKY BITCH

Yes yes, we know you’re a kinky bitch Caroline, we know that people can get off on pain or Domination etc. etc

I hear you, but I’m not just talking about BDSM practices, I am talking about every single human body.

Turn on isn’t only from pleasure.

Another way…

Your body isn’t only turned on by things your mind tells you are pleasurable.

There are myriad of experiences, thoughts and patterns that activate the flood of biochemicals that charge our nervous system with energy.

That ‘turn on’ our bodies.

It may be the expected turn ons:

Neck kisses

Men with beards and tattoos

Lingerie

Exquisite food

Sunsets

Beauty ideals

Day dreaming of being bent over your office table

Or the same physical response could be activated by:

Telling a lies and getting away with it

Eating ‘bad’ food

The sinking feeling when you’ve been ghosted. Again

Missing a bill payment

When your inner child is running the show

Even when your trauma (unfelt pain) is touched, your systems are flooded.

Even cutting yourself releases endorphins.

It’s only when the life force, electrical signal hits our mind do we interpret what is good or bad, our mind needs to file it away in either one of those boxes.

Which box based on conditioning, what your experiences as a child, your parents, teachers, peers, society, culture imprints good and bad. aka what has will bring you closer to the tribe, or will reject you.

Now for the kinky bit -

Your body doesn’t care where it gets it hit from.

It’s a kinky bitch that loves the sensations from ‘bad’ as much as ‘good’ pleasure.

Then when it’s figured out something that gives a high sensation, it will seek it out again and again until we a have a deep neurological groove for that behaviour.

High sensation + repetition = deep patterning

Whether society deems that behaviour good or bad.

Whether the behaviour is aligned to your Truth or not.

Whether you consciously enjoy it or not.

What’s even more fun/not fun is when you start any sort of practice that activates sexual turn on,

Bad boy hook up, yoni massages, kundalini awakening, self-touch practices

This intense activation lights up all of your conditioning and patterns for you to see, own and decided what is yours to keep.

Without this understating this your sexual awakening can bring up intense patterns which may

Blow your life up and leave you feeling utterly victimised by everything

then

your body will get off on it because she’s a kinky bitch

then

because patterns repeat (that’s what makes them a pattern)

it’ll happen all over again.

I lived this to a level of intensity I can barely comprehend now, my life exploded many times, my friends were exhausted, and my mind told me it was because I was unlovable and created more cravings to numb away the pain.

I now love this part of me and for the excitement and intensity that I was thoroughly addicted, and happily don’t create nearly as much drama now.

At the same time I have so much compassion for all the pain and hurt I caused myself, and others, as I was acting out these patterns.

Because only with ownership, awareness and compassion do we get to shift patterns, because our bodies don’t really care where we get the sensation from.

Kinky bitches that they are.

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This is where my magic lies, holding you in love and compassion while your s*xual awakening - whether that is fuck boy or spiritual practice flavour - allows you to shed all the patterns that are no longer true.

If this resonates and you want to know more about working with me, drop me a message and we can talk.